And All That Pride…

Some things don’t have to change. We are who we are. Thank god.

While this pandemic will prevent us from marching down Market Street in colorful mass to mark the 50th anniversary of the first Pride parades held in San Francisco and New York City, it does not prevent us from coming together to celebrate ourselves, our hard-fought achievements, our rampant creativity, and our strength in community.

(As published in  the San Francisco Bay Times, May 21, 2020)

On the contrary, it should inspire us to do so regardless – safely, of course, with smart adherence to in-person social distancing guidelines, and plenty of aplomb.

I have long admired my good friends Donna Sachet and Gary Virginia—the most dynamic of duos—giving, doing, organizing, giving, convening, inspiring, doing, (did I mention giving?), entertaining, celebrating, and bringing it over and over again in big and small ways to meet community needs. So, I am not surprised that they will outdo themselves again this year.  

Their legendary Pride Brunch—the event of the seasonwill go on, June 27th, and everyone is invited!  

Donna and Gary's Brunch ChallengeFrom the comfort of your living room, kitchen, or dining room, Gary and Donna will bring you the Grand Marshals of the Pride Parade at high-noon on Saturday June 27th, honor the rich history of LGBTQ culture and liberation, and celebrate 50 years of San Francisco Pride with a saucy kitchen battle. The two will share their favorite brunch recipes and you will be the judge yourself, crowning the winner “Pride Brunch Queen.” 

We can sit back and relax with hosted cocktails and a delicious brunch delivered right to our respective doors. Or you can dance, parade, and sing along to live entertainment, live auctions, and special surprises in the privacy of your own home. This longstanding PRC fundraiser honors individuals and organizations fighting for LGBTQ equality, while raising critical dollars for PRC’s lifesaving services like legal advocacy, emergency financial assistance, residential treatment, and employment services. 

Celebrating 50 years of San Francisco community Pride, parading, and action, it is hard to believe how far the LGBTQ movement has come since the Stonewall riots eruptedawakening a new generation of legal and social advocacy. In retrospect, this turning point brings new lessons today amid this evolving era of worldwide COVID-19 public health emergency. We are all connected, and we are stronger when we stand together. 

As public consciousness is rising about that interconnectedness and our Country’s glaring health, income and access inequities, I am proud of San Francisco, our LGBT and allied communities. We’re on the frontlines, showing up for the most vulnerable again and again. And while there is still plenty of work to doI look forward to celebrating the contributions and opportunities brought by this year’s Grand Marshals—The LGBT Asylum Project, Founder of the Spahr Center Rev. Dr. Jane Spahr, and Executive Director of the LGBT Historical Society Terry Beswick—at this year’s virtual Pride Brunch.  

PRC, Pride Brunch’s beneficiary, has long fought for the most disenfranchised and health-challenged in our community on the frontlines of HIV/AIDS and LGBTQ advocacy for access to basic and critical resources. Today, these efforts are even more important as the impact of longstanding fissures in health status and experiences by race, geography, income, and identity are laid bare by the novel coronavirus. PRC is providing emergency funds for rent, medication, and connectivity; legal advocacy to preserve healthcare and subsistence income through job loss and upheaval; and emotional support and employment services to keep people moving forward; while also sheltering nearly 300 adults in place through a substance use and mental health treatment continuum prioritizing health, safety, and wellness.  

As a 55-year old African American gay man, I am both deeply familiar with the disconnection between legal equality and lived equality and deeply indebted to the collective advocacy of so many courageous individuals who were willing to hold the line, never back down, and stand in harm’s way. So, let’s come together on June 27th and celebrate what’s good and great about San Francisco Pride.

Inspired again by Gary and Donna, I think the dire issues of the day will continue to galvanize us – a  Inspired again by Gary and Donna, I think the dire issues of the day will continue to galvanize us – a strongereven more compassionate community. I choose joy, love, honesty, empathy, compassion and service along with a hint of leather, lipstick, and humor. So, let’s brunch 

How could we not celebrate Pride’s 50th anniversary. I’m already planning my outfit. Don’t miss the Battle of the Queens, Gary Virginia and Donna Sachet’s legendary Pride Bruch, streaming live at 12pm on June 27th. Tickets are on sale, so get yours today, and prepare to give big. See you there. 

Welcome to the Bare Chest Calendar Club

Did you know?

  • The Bare Chest Calendar has been around for 36 years
  • It has featured over 400 Calendar Men
  • And in that time, it has raised over $2,000,000!

You were likely a part of those successes at some point.

  • You may have supported a friend who was running for the Calendar.
  • You may have bought a few (or many) raffle tickets from a contestant.
  • You may have bought various “items” at auctions to support the Calendar.
  • You may have bought a Calendar (or two) and feasted on 12 months of Calendar Men!

THANK YOU!

Your support of the Bare Chest Calendar, Team BCC, PRC and our clients means so much to us that we have a surprise we think you’ll really like…

The Bare Chest Calendar Club

Sign up today. The Bare Chest Calendar Club is:

  • A new way that you can stay involved with the Bare Chest Calendar, the current Calendar Men, and our esteemed Calendar Alumni.
  • A monthly giving membership that gives you exclusive Bare Chest Calendar content not available to anyone outside the club.
  • A way to support the mission of PRC and our clients who are some of San Francisco’s most vulnerable citizens.

When you join the Bare Chest Calendar Club you make a monthly investment in supporting PRC’s clients and continue to strengthen the legacy of the Bare Chest Calendar!

This Club has Benefits.

Depending on which monthly giving level you join, your Club membership provides you with exclusive Bare Chest Calendar content.

Everyone who joins the Bare Chest Calendar Club, at any level, will receive:
  • A copy of the Bare Chest Calendar for the year following your membership date
  • A monthly email featuring an alternative image of the current month’s Bare Chest Calendar Man AND a picture of a Bare Chest Calendar Man from the past; and 
  • You can be on the Calendar, and you don’t have to bare your chest! Your name will appear on one of the pages of the next printed Bare Chest Calendar following the date you join the club.

   

Monthly Giving Levels range from $15 to $100 per month.  Read on for details.
$100/month
  • Personalized birthday video and eBirthday card featuring Calendar Men
  • 2 tickets to Bare Chest Calendar Finals occurring after your join date
  • Bolded name on calendar page in next print Calendar following membership join date
  • Monthly email featuring alternate images from current Calendar AND previous Calendar
  • Monthly newsletter with Calendar updates and additional content from Calendar Men
  • Bare Chest Calendar for the year following join date
$75/month
  • eBirthday card featuring Calendar Men
  • 2 tickets to Bare Chest Calendar Finals occurring after your join date
  • Bolded name on calendar page in next print Calendar following membership join date
  • Monthly email featuring alternate images from current Calendar AND previous Calendar
  • Monthly newsletter with Calendar updates and additional content from Calendar Men
  • Bare Chest Calendar for the year following join date
$50/month
  • eBirthday card featuring Calendar Men
  • 1 ticket to Bare Chest Calendar Finals occurring after your join date
  • Name on Calendar page in next print Calendar following membership join date
  • Monthly email featuring alternate images from current Calendar AND previous Calendar
  • Monthly newsletter with Calendar updates and additional content from Calendar Men
  • Bare Chest Calendar for the year following join date
$25/month
  • 1 ticket to Bare Chest Calendar Finals occurring after your join date
  • Name on Calendar page in next print Calendar following membership join date
  • Monthly email featuring alternate images from current Calendar AND previous Calendar
  • Monthly newsletter with Calendar updates and additional content from Calendar Men
  • Bare Chest Calendar for the year following join date
$15/month
  • Name on Calendar page in next print Calendar following membership join date
  • Monthly email featuring alternate images from current Calendar AND previous Calendar
  • Monthly newsletter with Calendar updates and additional content from Calendar Men
  • Bare Chest Calendar for the year following join date

Open enrollment to join the Bare Chest Calendar Club ends on 10/31/2019, Halloween, so join the Club now to secure your spot!

AND everyone who joins before the end of open enrollment on 10/31/2019 will be included in a raffle to win 2 VIP tickets to the 2020 Big Muscle Party during Up Your Alley weekend!

Join the Bare Chest Calendar Club Now!